Membership Process

Once a person meets the membership criteria, they are eligible to become a Full or Associate Member of the organization. Applicants for full membership will go through a pledge process.

“How do pledges become full members of ONYX?”

Anyone wishing to join ONYX starts the process as a pledge. Pledges go through a “pledge period” where they are required to participate in ONYX events and meetings. During this process, a pledge decides if he can fully commit to being a full member. Additionally, pledges are required to learn about the history of ONYX, show dedication to ONYX, and will undergo a final evaluation by the officers of the chapter. Only by completing this process can an individual become a full member (or a full brother) of the organization.

“What does it mean to be a full member of ONYX?”

The prerequisites for being a full member of ONYX is that you are current on your annual dues; acquire the basic uniform (blue or black jeans, leather vest and leather boots), and have an interest in the BDSM, Kink, Bear, Leather, Levi lifestyles. As an active full member, you have the privilege of attending our closed meetings where we discuss ONYX business, plan our calendar of events, etc. Additionally, you have a vote in deciding major ONYX decisions as well as deciding ONYX leadership. You will receive one large patch as a sign of your membership.

“What are Associate Members?”

Associate members are members of ONYX but do not have voting rights. They are still welcomed into the organization, and will receive a small patch as a sign of membership. Associate members can be of any race, self-designated gender or sexual orientation. This membership has also been used for those who meet Full Brother requirements but cannot commit to the time needed for Full Brother membership.

“Do ONYX Great Lakes Chapter members pay dues?”

Yes. We ask full members to pay $100 and associate members $50 in annual dues to help with operating costs, etc. Both levels of membership will have up to 90 days to submit full payment of said dues.

“How much time will I have to dedicate to the organization on a monthly basis?”

Generally, members and pledges typically dedicate six hours per month for both our bar night (four hours) and our monthly meeting (two hours). We note that these hours may vary depending on the event(s) and discussions at our meetings.  Associate members will have an attendance requirement that is less than Full Brothers.

“I love ONYX, but it seems like it is too time consuming, my needs are met elsewhere, or my pledge process was not successful. Can I still be a part of ONYX?”

Of course! Everyone is welcomed into ONYX regardless of their schedules, their needs, or if the pledge process was not successful. You are still welcome to join as an associate member or just engage with us at any of our public events.

Want to join ONYX Great Lakes? Click here to fill out the membership application form!

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